9/23/2025

A Little Story: What Teaching Taught Me

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A Little Story: What Teaching Taught Me

At last week’s event, several people asked me: “So… how’s the teaching going?”

(If you hadn’t heard my latest news about taking on a part-time teaching position, read about it here)

Without thinking, I laughed and said: “Oh, you know what they say — be careful what you wish for!”

It hit me right then: I am living an old dream — teaching at the college level — and I’m loving it. But it has come with a few humbling surprises.

Honestly? It’s felt a lot like being a brand new entrepreneur all over again:

“Wait — I didn’t know I’d have to learn THAT...”
“Oh wow — this is a lot more work than I imagined…”

Between mastering a new learning platform, reading all the assigned materials, and designing activities to keep students engaged (because no one wants boring theory), I’ve had to face a very similar curve to the one our newbie Business Sisters experience.

And it reminded me of two important things:

1. Ego, sit down.

Even after 27 years as an entrepreneur, I needed to start fresh — and feel what it’s like to not know what I’m doing. I didn’t realize how much I needed that reminder — to lead with empathy, not assumptions.

2. Fear, you’re loud — but not always right.

I told you in my last note that I took this teaching job for more financial stability.

And yes, like many of you, I let the fear-mongering headlines get to me:

“The economy is collapsing! Times are hard! Brace yourself!”

So I went looking for something “guaranteed.”

And while I don’t regret the decision (I truly love teaching), I now realize I was distracted by fear instead of focused on what I already had. Not to say the economy isn’t worrisome, but sometimes we need to shut off the news and do our thing.

Would I do it again? The teaching, that is? Yes — but maybe one course, not two. And not back-to-back. On the same day. (Seriously, what was I thinking?)

What about you?

Ever said yes to something you thought you wanted… only to be handed a surprise lesson (or five) along the way?

Hit reply and tell me — I’d love to hear.

Doreen

A Little Story: What Teaching Taught Me

At last week’s event, several people asked me: “So… how’s the teaching going?”

(If you hadn’t heard my latest news about taking on a part-time teaching position, read about it here)

Without thinking, I laughed and said: “Oh, you know what they say — be careful what you wish for!”

It hit me right then: I am living an old dream — teaching at the college level — and I’m loving it. But it has come with a few humbling surprises.

Honestly? It’s felt a lot like being a brand new entrepreneur all over again:

“Wait — I didn’t know I’d have to learn THAT...”
“Oh wow — this is a lot more work than I imagined…”

Between mastering a new learning platform, reading all the assigned materials, and designing activities to keep students engaged (because no one wants boring theory), I’ve had to face a very similar curve to the one our newbie Business Sisters experience.

And it reminded me of two important things:

1. Ego, sit down.

Even after 27 years as an entrepreneur, I needed to start fresh — and feel what it’s like to not know what I’m doing. I didn’t realize how much I needed that reminder — to lead with empathy, not assumptions.

2. Fear, you’re loud — but not always right.

I told you in my last note that I took this teaching job for more financial stability.

And yes, like many of you, I let the fear-mongering headlines get to me:

“The economy is collapsing! Times are hard! Brace yourself!”

So I went looking for something “guaranteed.”

And while I don’t regret the decision (I truly love teaching), I now realize I was distracted by fear instead of focused on what I already had. Not to say the economy isn’t worrisome, but sometimes we need to shut off the news and do our thing.

Would I do it again? The teaching, that is? Yes — but maybe one course, not two. And not back-to-back. On the same day. (Seriously, what was I thinking?)

What about you?

Ever said yes to something you thought you wanted… only to be handed a surprise lesson (or five) along the way?

Hit reply and tell me — I’d love to hear.

Doreen

Doreen Ashton Wagner
Doreen Ashton Wagner
Founder | Fondatrice
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Donna MacDonald
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That’s fantastic to hear! Data like this truly highlights the dedication, resilience, and diversity within the Business Sisters Entrepreneurs community. It’s inspiring to see how their hard work and innovation contribute to the broader business landscape.
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Denise Sukkau
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We are entering a time when women need to take our place, fill up our space and be who we are without apology. I have difficulty with this and thus I try to keep expanding, keep learning, keep letting go of those past experiences that have kept me small(er). Our culture and past societal 'norms' in a patriarchal time have diminished our voice in addition to other past traumas to women. In supporting each other we can rise together without guilt or shame for being a b*tch or any other shadow expression of our soul, to embrace our power that is within. (Please note I have recently come off of a feminine empowerment retreat called Rise Sister Rise.)
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Moumie
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Bonjour Doreen, J'aime cet article, c'est bien dit... !!😄 Je rajoute, tu es aussi pour ma part, dans ton rôle, de pouvoir encadrer les choses autant que tu peux car, gérer les êtres humains est une tâche énorme pour n'importe quelle occasion. Je viens d'apprendre aussi une chose intéressante, la philosophie de Ted Lasso, je ne connaissais pas cette série, je vais la regarder. Merci de partager cela. Donc, en un mot, tout ca est intéressant moi, je te trouve en tout cas authentique :)!! Bravo pour ton leadership👍
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Lexine
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Huh - ma première réaction - 41% ont plus de 6 employés. Il serait intéressant de voir combien sont des sous-contractants VS part-time VS full-time, et les liens aux revenus bruts?
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